Choosing a therapist is a significant commitment. While many people seek help, not everyone is looking for the same kind of help. Use this guide to determine if our approach—focused on trauma, addiction, and the unconscious—aligns with what you need right now.
1. Identify Your Current Goal
What is your primary reason for seeking support today?
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A: “I need immediate tools to stop a specific behavior or manage a panic attack.”
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Best fit: A Psychologist focusing on CBT or ACT for short-term symptom management.
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B: “I feel like I’m stuck in a cycle. I’ve tried ‘tips and tricks’ before, but the same patterns keep coming back.”
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Best fit: WellSpeaking. We look beneath the surface to find out why these patterns repeat.
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2. Reflect on Your History
How much do you feel your past is influencing your present?
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A: “My past is fine; I just have a lot of stress at work right now.”
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Best fit: General counselling or life coaching.
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B: “I have experienced trauma or difficult childhood events that I’ve never fully processed. I can feel them echoing in my body and my relationships.”
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Best fit: WellSpeaking. Our 15+ years of experience in trauma and somatic (body-based) resonance is designed for this specific depth of work.
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3. Consider Your Preferred Pace
How do you want to work through your challenges?
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A: “I want a structured program with homework and a set number of sessions.”
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Best fit: A clinical Psychologist working under a 10-session Mental Health Care Plan.
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B: “I want a space where I can speak freely. I am ready to commit to a process that might take time but will lead to a more authentic sense of self.”
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Best fit: WellSpeaking. We prioritize the “unconscious narrative” over a rigid checklist.
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You are likely ready for Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy if:
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You are tired of “putting a band-aid” on your pain.
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You want to understand the relationship between your mind and your body.
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You are looking for a long-term shift in how you see yourself, rather than just a temporary reduction in symptoms.
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You value a confidential, highly personal relationship with a therapist who sees you as a whole person.
Still Unsure?
The best way to know is to experience the space. I offer an initial consultation where we can discuss your history and determine together if this approach will provide the relief and understanding you are looking for.
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